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Church of the Holy Family
1279 North Great Neck Road
Virginia Beach VA 23454
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History of the Church of the Holy Family
     We began as part of Star of the Sea parish, the oldest parish in Virginia Beach. As the City of Virginia Beach began to grow in the early 1970's, Fr. Paul Gaughan, pastor at Star of the Sea, met with residents of the Great Neck area to plan a new parish. As these conversations progressed, a group of Great Neck area Catholics arranged with Francis Asbury United Methodist Church for a Saturday evening Mass, beginning in June of 1975. In January of 1976, area Catholics also gathered for Mass on Sunday at Trantwood Elementary School. By June of 1977, over 500 area households gathered each weekend for Eucharist.
     In the 1960's, Bishop John J. Russell anticipated the growth of Virginia Beach, and purchased land on main roads in various parts of the city. He acquired property at the intersection of North Great Neck Road and First Colonial Road, the site of our worship space.
     Bishop Walter F. Sullivan appointed our first pastor, Fr. Thomas Reardon, in June of 1977, and created the new parish of Church of the Holy Family. Bishop Sullivan selected this name from several proposed by parishioners. Later that fall, Fr. Reardon organized a Parish Council and various standing committees. Within a year we produced a long-term planning commission and parish mission statement.
     In early, December of 1978, Fr. James E. Dorson succeeded Fr. Reardon as pastor. Fr. Dorson remained our pastor for the next twelve years.
     We rapidly outgrew our arrangement with Trantwood School and Francis Asbury Church. In May of 1979, we moved our weekend liturgies to Cape Henry Collegiate School on First Colonial Road.  Starting in the fall of 1979, we organized a building fund and engaged the architectural firm of Oliver, Smith and Cooke to design our building. By February of 1980, we met our initial fund-raising goals and submitted building plans to Bishop Sullivan. We broke ground on June 22, 1980 and on August 27, 1981, Bishop Sullivan dedicated our finished building, although we began celebrating liturgies in the building's Family Room a few months earlier.
     After our initial six-year marathon of organizing and building, we settled into the multiple, on-going tasks of responding creatively to the steady growth in the Great Neck area, the increasing numbers of Catholic families, and the changing nature of life in Virginia Beach while striving to retain the sense of community and ministry which characterized our initial nomadic years.
     In December of 1991, after eleven and a half years as Pastor, Fr. Dorson left the parish to spend his last six months on sabbatical. Fr. Al Pereria, a retired priest of the diocese, acted as parish administrator for the final six months of Fr. Dorson's twelve year tenure with Holy Family. In June of 1991, Fr. Richard Mooney took up the pastorate. At the conclusion of nine years at Holy Family, Fr. Mooney was succeeded by Fr. Thomas J. Quinlan in 2000.
     Between 1981 and the present, we grew into one of the ten largest parishes in the Diocese of Richmond with numbers averaging twelve hundred registered households. We responded by instituting a series of regular parish-wide events which became trademarks of the Holy Family life. Coffee and donuts in the Family Room after the Sunday Masses became a regular parish fixture. The annual Parish Fair, instituted even before the building was built, gave us a chance each June to entertain the whole area with rides, booths, games, food, and entertainment. Parish progressive dinners offered parishioners opportunities to meet each other socially. Potlucks, picnics, dinner dances, newcomer welcomes, and many other events scheduled regularly through the year helped new families find a home and veterans keep connected with the on-going life of our parish.
     Many new families, and a greater diversity of ages within the parish, helped us sustain volunteer-based Christian formation programs for our children and high school youth under the guidance of a succession of talented Ministers of Christian Formation over the years. Youth Ministry emerged as an energetic focus of middle and high school faith formation, with social activities and service projects benefiting groups within the parish and in the larger community. Each year, for several years, parish youth wrote and performed a one-act play, usually a comedy, around themes of Christian living, for the whole community to enjoy.
     Largely as a result of our growing numbers and the demands of religious education programs and parish life, we embarked on an expansion program in 1997, consulting with the parish as a whole through a series of town meetings to determine how our building should respond to our life as a parish. As a result of those efforts, we dedicated our new spaces in late 2000, opening the parish center with offices and meeting spaces designed to respond not only to the needs of parishioners but also to requirements of the surrounding community. As we celebrate our 25th anniversary, we see scouts, support groups and civic organizations sharing our spaces and we are preparing for a parish pre-school on site.
     Our 1992 Parish Council approved the formation of a parish-based Knights of Columbus Council, and Pope Leo XIII Council was organized the following year. The Knights and the ladies in the Auxiliary contributed much-appreciated hours of effort to numerous parish events and projects, sponsoring family breakfasts, ice cream socials, and seasonal parties. The efforts of the Knights also made possible the acquisition of new tables and chairs for parish use.
     When Virginia Beach General Hospital emerged as a large, modern hospital and the anchor for an extensive area health-care and medical establishment, we responded with volunteer pastoral care ministries within the various institutions, culminating in 1993 when we created a unique new staff position, the Parish Health Care Minister. He provides on-going professional pastoral care to Catholics both within and outside the parish, in the midst of medical trauma and hospitalization. The ministry of Pastoral Care also encompasses ongoing support for persons and families affected by illness, addiction, death and bereavement issues.
     As Great Neck became known as an attractive retirement destination, we organized our Nifty-over-50 group, which quickly established a reputation not only for its craft shows, meals together, and trips, but also for its many quiet contributions to parish community and ministry. As the group’s numbers and interests grew, the members determined that a new name was needed and our seasoned citizens became known as the J.O.Y. Group (“Just Older Youth”).
     The Great Neck area became a spawning ground for small businesses of all sorts, the home of many professionals, and a haven for the increased concentration of military  personnel following the nationwide down-sizing of the armed forces in the early 1990's. The parish responded with strong programs and processes in adult formation and the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults. In the mid 1990's, new program directions included Landings, a process for each Catholic returning to active participation after a long absence. The parish presently enjoys adult formation in several forms, including Sunday morning sessions on a variety of topics from bioethical issues to Catholic identity, and regularly scheduled evening courses taught by the pastor.
     We have sustained a tradition of dynamic social outreach through the years as we became a source of support to parishioners and non-parishioners alike­-especially during the economically challenging late 1980's and early 1990's. We joined with other religious communities in Winter Watch, the homeless shelter program, as well as organizing our own annual Giving Tree and Life Support projects. We dispersed as much as ten percent of our annual budget for the direct support of individuals, families and organizations in need. The parish today has many outreach ministries in operation, from Habitat for Humanity to migrant ministry, from soup kitchen work to a busy food pantry service.
     Beginning in the late 1980's, we began a performing arts group, the Holy Family Players, and mounted annual productions of such musicals as Godspell, Once Upon a Mattress and Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat, comedies such as The Matchmaker, and even a home-grown musical comedy, Between the Masses," entirely written by several parishioners.
     We enhanced our worship with adult and children's choirs, the purchase of a concert grand piano and an electric organ-synthesizer as well as handbells. We upgraded our original sound system in the worship place with a more efficient and effective system, and, in celebration of our 25th anniversary, we installed a new sound system and a concert-grade organ and speakers. Under the capable guide of our Ministers of Music, our instruments and choirs have been supported by parish instrumentalists of all sorts, from flute to drum, bassoon to horn and violin. The Liturgy Committee, with its Planning Teams and its Art and Environment Group, has worked year-in and year-out to craft solid celebrations of the church's sacraments.
     In 2001, Holy Family embarked on a house-church program, where the entire parish was divided into over 40 neighborhood-based groups of about 25 households. The groups meet once a month throughout the academic year to pray and study scripture together as well to offer one another ongoing support. Each of the house church groups selects an Elder to serve on an Elders’ Council which shares in setting parish vision and direction with the pastor and staff.
     Holy Family in 2002 is an intentional parish community. Parishioners do not belong simply because they live inside the parish boundaries, but because they believe in what the parish stands for: the People of God living out their baptism in ministry. That means that all adult and teenage members of the community are expected to engage in ministry in some form, whether Christian Formation, justice and peace, liturgy and music, pastoral care, web site creation and maintenance or administration and community life.
     Behind all these adaptations and accomplishments are a great many names of holy, dynamic and ministerial people who have served here at Holy Family in our 25 years. There is not space to list them all. Many are still with us. Many more have moved on to new parishes. Still others have gone before us in faith, and await the Reign of God. As Church of the Holy Family we have made our mark on Virginia Beach. We face a future full of promise with the example of years of Christian community and service behind us.